Crofton House School Alumnae Association
There are almost 4000 Crofton House School alumnae living around the world. From Vancouver to New York, Victoria to the UK, Prince Rupert to Shanghai, our Alumnae are doctors, artists and entrepreneurs, they’re mothers and grandmothers, volunteers and CEO’s. CHS alumnae are confident, empowered women who can - and do - accomplish extraordinary things.
Crofton House alumnae form a strong network of women because of the close bonds they share with each other, with teachers and staff, and with the spaces and places at the School. These bonds have had a lasting effect on their character, their relationships, and their place in the world.
Explore our website to read their stories.
The Class of 2017 — Coming into their “Prime”
Kat Uy, Head Girl, Address at the Opening Assembly
Good morning Dr. Dawson, members of the platform party, teachers, guests, students, and of course, the graduating class of 17 Prime. As I look at all of you here present today, I begin to notice reactions to the start of the 2016-2017 school year - a mixture of nervousness and excitement. The stress of being back in an academic environment combined with the anticipation for what’s to come. Nonetheless, each of our summers were filled with unique stories, experiences, and memories that may differentiate us, yet today, Crofton House has brought us altogether once again. So whether it’s your first or last year here within these Ivy walls, I want to welcome all of you to what has, or will soon become your second home. Trust me when I say that there will definitely be days when you spend more time at school than you do in your actual home.
When thinking about the name Prime, it has numerous definitions. Asking other Crofties what they thought, prime rib seemed to be the most popular response. Closely following that was primetime television. Clearly, Crofties know their priorities. Now although the graduating class is honoured as 17 Prime, this year, we urge everyone to become their own version of “prime.” The dictionary tells me it means “of the best possible quality” and “a time of great strength, vigor, and success in a person’s life.” Standing up here now, I could not imagine our grade having any other name. All of us will face challenges this upcoming year - whether it be exams, social events, the dreaded university applications, or for some, it may even be the first week of school. But together with great strength and vigor, there will come success in many variations whether it be praise, a simple thank you, a smile, or a medal.
Crofton House has countless opportunities for you to discover new talents and interests - you only have to say yes and commit yourself to pursuing the chances offered. Through these experiences, the values of Crofton will soon feel natural to you as you find yourself being courageous, creative, and a good citizen in your everyday life. Courageous in the choices you make, creative in your assignments and projects, and a good citizen through your actions. For the seniors, it’s really a simple thought - In our last year here together, how do we make it prime? How do WE want to be remembered? This year is about finding the person you want to be because when we are strong individually, together, we are undivided. Prime will soon become a reflection of the whole school. Meredith Grey from Grey’s Anatomy once said, “You can waste your lives drawing lines. Or, you can live your life crossing them.” The challenge this year is for students to cross their own lines. Whether it be volunteering in our wider community, joining a new club or team, or reaching out to talk to new staff and students; crossing lines is the way you discover characteristics you didn’t know you harboured before. I can’t tell you what your lines are, but I hope you find them this year, and not only cross them, but exceed them and surprise yourself; all of course, while wearing the ever so fashionable, gordan tartan no shorter than 4.25 inches above the knees.
on Friday October 28, 2016 at 04:10PM
On the evening of May 25th, a group of CHS alumnae met in Vancouver for a Soup Sisters session for the Alumnae Association’s wind-up party. Soup Sisters organizes soup-making events for small groups. In turn, that soup provides hundreds of litres of nourishing and nurturing goodness to women and children fleeing domestic abuse and family violence.
The event was held as a way to thank alumnae for volunteering and being involved with the Association over the past year. However, it also proved to be a powerful opportunity for our alumnae to give back to the greater community — and have some fun at the same time.
After learning some basic knife skills from the head chef, the soup-making began in earnest. During the course of the evening, the 17 alumnae who took part made more than 154 litres of soup for Maggie’s Place, a woman’s shelter in Vancouver. It was truly an amazing experience for all involved.
Given its huge success, another Soup Sisters event is being organized for the end of January 2017. Details will be sent out by email closer to the date. All alumnae are welcome!
on Friday October 28, 2016 at 04:09PM
Congratulations to all members of our graduating class and good luck in your post-secondary studies!
University of British Columbia
Mount Allison University
University of Toronto
University of Victoria
University of California - Berkeley
University of California - Los Angeles
California Art Institute
Claremont McKenna College
Johns Hopkins University
University of Michigan
St. Mary’s College of California
New York University
Santa Clara University
University of San Diego
University of Southern California
Les Roches International School of Hotel Management
St. Andrew’s University
University of Cambridge
University of Central Lancashire
on Friday October 28, 2016 at 04:09PM
Arriving at CHS in grade 8, Emily is one of the few alumnae who can say she had classes in Gordon Hall, the Village and the new Senior School. As a young woman with deep roots in Vancouver and a love for historic homes such as the Old Residence, it’s no surprise she quickly came to regard Crofton House campus as her home away from home.
Emily found being in an all-girls environment in her high school years gave her the confidence to grow from a shy girl into a self-actualized young woman. She felt comfortable during what she describes as “a very impressionable age when teenage girls grow and mature rapidly.” This unique environment also empowered her, and her focus on academics. “As girls, together, there were no boundaries to our imagination, or what we wanted to learn,” she says. “It was inspiring.”
After graduating from CHS, Emily pursued further education at the UBC Sauder School of Business graduating with a Bachelor of Commerce (BCom) with a focus in marketing. In turn, a summer internship led to full-time employment. Emily is making a name and career for herself at Kirk & Co., a consulting firm specializing in policy, planning and infrastructure projects.
Today, Emily meets many CHS alumnae in the course of her work and finds she can connect comfortably across different generations with these women because of their shared school experience. “In Vancouver, CHS alumnae are a small but diverse network of accomplished women. I learn something from every alumna I meet.” Emily remains close friends with her CHS classmates. “We are all pursuing such different and exciting careers and educational opportunities. My school friends are intelligent and motivated women, and we’ve always known how to have fun and take care of each other.”
on Friday October 28, 2016
on Friday May 20, 2016 at 04:12PM
Community, whether local or international, has always been at the heart of Leigh Boyle’s passions. The fundraiser, philanthropist, and former Head Girl, Leigh Boyle ’05, received the Crofton House School Alumnae Association’s 2016 Alumnae Achievement Award at the School’s 118th birthday Assembly on March 4, for her outstanding commitment to philanthropic endeavours.
After graduating in communications at Trinity Western University, eager and idealistic, and “yearning to find out more about the world”, Boyle spent 2.5 years working for non-profits in Swaziland and northern Ethiopia. In Ethiopia she was isolated by geography, language and lack of technology, Leigh sought to find a place for herself in the community she was living in. She began doing manicures for patients at a local hospital. An act as simple as painting their nails and giving the women - some who were only just teenagers - a hand massage, became a profound and joyful way of connecting and creating community.
On returning to Vancouver, she witnessed the passing of the mother of a family friend. In palliative care, the mother requested a manicure. Leigh understood what this meant and how this simple request would bring dignity and beauty to last days of her life. Deeply touched by the experience, she decided to bring the compassion she had learnt on her travels back to her local community. And so began the Lipstick Project.
The project has evolved into a full-fledged local non-profit. During the day, Leigh has been pursuing a career as a philanthropic consultant, recently launching a company, Fawkes & Holly, with her business partner, Janet. Together, Leigh and Janet help small charities build efficient, effective fundraising programs that allow them to grow. After hours, she directs her energy into her role as the Lipstick Project’s Executive Director alongside the Director of Community Partnerships and fellow CHS Alumnae, Holly Chan ’01. The Lipstick Project works with seven organizations in the Lower Mainland, including North Shore Hospice, Ronald McDonald House, Camp Goodtimes, and Canuck Place providing free professional and therapeutic spa services to patients approaching the end of their lives. Since it launched in 2013, the Lipstick Project has delivered more than 1,000 hours of professional services to over 500 clients in the Vancouver area.
Holly and Leigh met each other after graduating from school. “We had an instant connection and trust which I find typical of the CHS Alumnae. Some of the most meaningful relationships I have built are through the alumnae. The network is real, and I am enthused by the support I get for the Lipstick Project from this community, including creating a partnership and friendship with Holly.”
In her CHS Alumnae Achievement Award acceptance speech Leigh said: “Crofton House School imprints you with an awareness to be kind and compassionate, to be ambitious and creative, and to consider each day the ways you can help those around you. The school has been an essential part of the Lipstick Project’s development as it was here that many of us learned how to be good citizens. How to be people who care about their friends, families and community.”
CHS also taught Leigh how to learn, to ask questions and be curious. “We were not allowed to quit,” she says. “This stood me in good stead in my professional life. Instead of quitting we were encouraged to find solutions and to work as a team. We were taught that if we don’t like a subject or are not good at a particular task, you can still find a way to do it and do it well. The expectation was that you try your best. Success was the willingness to reach your personal best. In life, you are not going to be good at everything, and to think that you are, is setting yourself up for disappointment.”
Sport played a big part in her school career, and she stills plays weekly recreational volleyball with Lesley Cuddington ’05, her co-captain from the CHS volleyball team. “I found an instant sense of belonging on the sports field. It taught me leadership, teamwork, perseverance, and how to have a lot of fun. I am not sure I would have thrown myself into athletics in the same way if I was not at an all-girls school.” It was at CHS that Leigh first stepped into a leadership role as Head Girl. “CHS was a safe place to find my voice,” says Leigh.
Leigh’s leadership qualities and credentials continue to grow. In 2015, she was a BCBusiness 30 Under 30 Winner and is currently pursuing an MBA at Simon Fraser University’s Beedie School of Business. The CHS community is excited to be alongside Leigh as she continues to carve out her life’s path. Her message to CHS Alumnae is: “I am honoured to be a recipient of the 2016 Alumnae Achievement Award. For all of us, it is about embracing the values that come from this community. CHS shaped all of us in our formative years, for the better. We were privileged to be here.”
on Wednesday April 27, 2016 at 03:38PM
on Wednesday April 27, 2016 at 03:38PM
Lisa’s admirable career achievements originated when she was a young woman in a tartan skirt, encouraged to find her sense of purpose by Crofton House School. She fondly recalls the comradery amongst friends and the nurturing support of the staff. “I couldn’t have done it without the foundation I got at CHS,” she says. “At school we were encouraged to believe that we could be anything, a prime minister, a surgeon or an artist. The school had high expectations of us, and we were always encouraged to do our best.”
Shortly after graduating from CHS, Lisa went to UBC for one year before moving to New York to complete her Bachelor of Business Administration at the New School for Social Research. Leaving the safety of Vancouver for a new city and country required courage and confidence. Lisa credits her family’s sense of adventure for giving her the courage to leave home, and Crofton House for her confidence. Barely 20 when she moved to New York she recalls, “no-one cared who you were, or where you had come from. The confidence that was instilled in me at school to venture afar, to consider all my choices, and to pursue opportunities is what gave me the courage to keep going.”
Her first steps into the business world included a stint at Ralph Lauren before crossing over into the music industry where she spent ten years building a career while working for different record companies, and finally Sony Music Canada. In this creative and exciting environment, Lisa was given the opportunity to learn about the many facets that comprise business. However, her passion for giving back to communities is where her heart truly lay.
A keen interest in international development and the fragile states of vulnerable populations led Lisa to UNICEF Canada where she served on the board from 2009 – May 2015. This experience crystalized her interest in issues concerning children and inspired her to establish the charity GenerationChild. Initially, the organization was deeply involved in efforts to reach displaced and sometimes detained and forgotten children in Iraq. Over time, the organization has re-strategized its focus to the west coast of BC, the place Lisa calls home. GenerationChild’s current objective is to support community organizations in BC, the Yukon and the North West Territories engaged in child-focused health, education and protection.
Lisa’ other passion is promoting the vital role that she believes women should and will hold in the corporate world. In June 2015 she served as chair of Next Billion: Women and the Economy of the Future. She invited corporate leaders from Canada, the U.S., Latin America and Asia to discuss how women are critical to businesses moving forward, whether they be consumers, labour force, employees or entrepreneurs. Corporations were encouraged to look at diversity as an investment in the bottom line. “While we’ve witnessed significant strides on women’s issues, from diversity programs to micro-financing, corporations from all sectors have failed to truly recognize and capitalize on women’s potential positive economic impact. As we look to the future of our global economy, those who continue to ignore this opportunity do so at their own peril”. The unique feature of the conference: men in the room, actively engaged as part of the conversation. “It is time we have the men in the room, not just women speaking to other women about women’s issues,” she says.
Lisa’s hope is that her generation will be able to leave a prosperous and stable world for future CHS graduates. She is truly embodying the CHS motto ‘Servabo Fidem” – keeping the faith for future generations.
on Monday November 9, 2015 at 12:25PM
At a time when many women’s paths followed predictable lines, Marilyn (Nordale) Stacy ‘45 chose a different route for herself. After graduating from CHS, she studied English and History at the University of Washington, earning a BA in 1949 and her teaching certificate in 1950. This was only the beginning of her educational pursuits, however, which culminated years later with an MA in French Literature in 1961 and a career teaching at the University of Washington.
The story of this adventurous woman’s education tells only one part of the bigger picture. After five years of teaching high school in the 1950s, Marilyn decided to buy a one-way plane ticket to France, leaving with little more than $200 in purse. This initial leap into the unknown changed from a planned, two-week stay to one that lasted over two years and led to a life-long love of the country, which she’s visited many times since.
She was able to stay for so long on that visit because she sensed an opportunity while she was there. She had gone over as a camp counsellor and learned that there might be jobs for people who could teach English. After some maneuvering with a notoriously guarded secretary, Marilyn managed to get in to see the director of the National Department of Education and was offered a position as an English assistant in a small village in the French Alps.
After a year teaching conversational English in Bourg d'Oisans, Marilyn recalls how Paris had begun to beckon. She’d managed to find a line on an apartment – no small feat in post-war Paris – but hadn’t yet secured a new job. When she asked monsieur le directeur about his thoughts on taking a chance, he was frank: “It’s far easier to get a job than an apartment. You take it.”
She went for it. “I thought that if I got a job, then I’d love to stay,” Marilyn notes. “All I had at that point was a half-packed trunk in Seattle and a limited supply of clothes.” Sure enough, things worked out beautifully, as it only took two weeks to receive an appointment as an assistant at Lycee Claude Monet in Paris. Shortly after, she also managed to earn her Certificat d’études françaises in 1957 from the University of Grenoble.
The significance of that time shines through in her words. “The place I was staying had a little shower and a little tiny kitchen,” she recalls, “but I made do because I had more than most people did in Paris at that time. It was nice, but my finances were very low. Still, I wanted to be independent. I didn’t do all the things that I could have if I had let others help, but I did see a lot of French life because I was immersed in the city. It was a wonderful experience.”
Though she didn’t often have the chance to indulge while living in Paris, she did accept a few small gifts from her parents. “The Brussels Fair was taking place,” she recalls, “and my parents sent me a cheque and said ‘go and enjoy.’ They also sent me a care package, which I saved so well that I didn’t end up eating most of the food. Mainly, I learned to be content with what I had.”
Her adventures also led her to teaching in Alaska – where she was born – from 1958–1959, and numerous trips back to France, including one in 1984 she recalls particularly fondly because it was the first time she visited the country with her husband. One wonders if it was her first big move – to Vancouver from Alaska via the Yukon – that set the pattern for many of her later travels.
In terms of her time at Crofton House, Marilyn remembers things fondly. “When I came here, my sister and I had spent the summer in a rooming house in the University area. I was used to asking questions and being quite free, so I was surprised when I asked the matron, Ms. Loosley, ‘why?’ to one of her instructions. Her reply was simply ‘Marilyn, we don’t ask why here, we do it!’”
While she notes that this new setting involved a lot of learning, she came to embrace the challenges and learn from them along the way. In truth, each turn in her story is exemplary in its boldness. From new cities to lifestyles at different ends of the spectrum, this cosmopolitan alumna’s story serves to inspire and challenge others in turn.
on Tuesday June 16, 2015
Greetings from the Alumnae Association Executive. As I prepare mentally for my daughter's "Fetch '15" graduation from CHS in a few short days, I'm reminded of how quickly time passes and of my own graduation back in 1981. It's been a terrific year for the graduates and a busy one for the Alumnae Association.
This year marks the 100th anniversary of the CHS Alumnae Association. Together with the school, we kicked off the year with an Alum Mum's Breakfast. We have over 30 alumnae with daughters at Crofton. We also had a great opportunity, early in the school year, to introduce the association to the Junior School and Early Childhood Education Centre by presenting the new girls with CHS pins. So cute! This year's Seasonal Social at the Wall Centre, held just before and across the street from the beloved Carol Service, was well attended by alumnae from all generations, with a great showing from the class of 2014.
February's 5th Annual Inspiring Women Event was hosted once again by CBC Radio's Rick Cluff, who moderated an incredible round table discussion with three of our brightest and most accomplished alumnae. This year's Alumnae Achievement Award was presented to Prudence Emery ‘54 at the school's 117th birthday and Alumnae Association's AGM/Luncheon in March. Prudence is an accomplished filmmaker and publicist and managed to bring the house down in the school assembly, another great moment connecting the alumnae with the girls. We wrapped up the school year by hosting the annual Mother-Daughter Tea, an opportunity to welcome the class of 2015 into the fold.
This year was also a time of transitions. We bid a fond farewell to Janet Hammond ‘67 at end of this month after 15 years of managing the CHS Alumnae Association Uniform Shop. Janet will be missed and we wish her all the best in her future adventures and travels. Lishe O'Kiely ‘75 will take over as manager and spearhead the move of the Uniform Shop into the new Crofton Hall this summer.
For anyone who would like to get involved with the Alumnae Association, we meet every second Tuesday of the month at 6 p.m. in the Old Residence. Everyone is welcome and we'll start up our meetings again in September.
Cathy (Fraser) Hunt ‘81
President, CHS Alumnae Association
on Tuesday June 16, 2015
Choose groups to clone to: